He?s A Stalker If.............................. Ladies have you
come home from a long hard day at work only to find your
estranged or current partner hiding in your bushes, parked in
his car further down the street with binoculars watching your
house, hiding behind the neighbors tree or just blatantly
sitting in your house waiting on you! If you answered yes to any
of these questions.....................honey he is a stalker.
There is nothing cute or loving about a spouse (estranged or
current), watching your every move. It is stupid and dangerous.
Some women mistake this type of behavior as him ?really loving
her.? He doesn?t love you. He wants to control you and
everything that you do. Most times the results of stalking are
tragic and it?s not a game. If you have broken off a
relationship and he just absolutely refuses to accept it and
always wants to ?talk about it,? he is very unstable and will
more than likely become a stalker. According to The National
Center for Victims of Crime, 1in 12 women will be stalked in
their lifetimes, 87% of stalkers are men, and 81% of women
stalked by a current or former intimate partner are also
physically assaulted by that partner. Some signs to look for in
a stalker are: Following you and showing up wherever you are,
Repeatedly calling you including hang-ups, Damaging your home,
car, or other property, Using technology such as hidden cameras
or global positioning systems to track wherever you go, Threaten
to hurt you, your family, friends, or pets and they will also go
so far as to find information about you by utilizing public
records, online search services, and private investigators.
Source: The National Center for Victims of Crime. Never accept
forceful and controlling behavior from your partner. If he
jokingly tells you that ?he?s never letting you leave him? he
really means it and it?s no joke to him. You?ll see that once
you leave him and the stalking begins. What are you going to say
and think then, ?He said he was never letting me leave him, but
I didn?t think he was serious.? When you have finally realized
the seriousness of the situation, sometimes it?s too late. So if
you are presently experiencing any of the above and need
assistance, contact The National Center for Victims of Crime at
1-800-FYI-CALL and always alert friends and family. Visit my
websites at: http://monicaburns.tripod.com
www.monicamburns.vstore.ca and
www.flashbuilder.net/users/monicaburns. Monica M. Burns 2005
Monica M. Burns. All Rights Reserved. About The Author Monica M.
Burns is a writer, expert author, and editor of Monica M. Burns,
Inc., websites, small web based businesses providing
informational self-help products for women. She has authored
several eBooklets and other reading information materials and is
a featured Expert Author on many websites. She has also
contributed to several poetic anthologies. If you would like to
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About the author:
Monica M. Burns is a writer, expert author, and editor of Monica
M. Burns, Inc., websites, small web based businesses providing
informational self-help products for women. She has authored
several eBooklets and other reading information materials and is
a featured Expert Author on many websites. She has also
contributed to several poetic anthologies.
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