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What Made Me Uproot My Young Family, Say Goodbye To Friends,
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Author: Mark Eastwood
Topic: Travel
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At least once a day I wonder how I and my young family ended up
in Spain. Life has changed completely and at times it feels
frightening, I wonder if our move was too impulsive, mad and
stupid but at the same time I realise it?s exciting and that we
only live once (allegedly) so why not?
One thing is for sure ? our lives will never be the same again?
Once upon a time we lived near Brighton working from home on our
own business. We certainly earned a decent living but the
business was declining and motivation was ebbing away.
In 2001 a close friend came back from an inspection trip
proclaiming he had found the land of milk and honey ?it?s
paradise? he exclaimed before telling us this paradise was
actually known as Javea on the Costa Blanca.
Six months later we were worn down and we went on the inspection
trip. This was with a superb company who in no way pushed us
into anything. Most people seem to knock inspection trips - I
wouldn?t. I think most of us are adult enough to make up our own
mind and not be pressured into anything rash.
We paid something like ?149 each for the flights and they paid
for the hotel. We started off in Moraira on the Friday. I
wondered why our good friend had been so enthusiastic.
Admittedly it is a fantastic place (looking back now) but I was
looking for the earth to move. It didn?t. Later we went to
Javea, all of a sudden the feeling hit ? THIS IS IT!
The next day on the Saturday we were due to fly back that night.
Now I swear we were not motivated by pressure but you guessed
it, that day after a whole 24 hours of looking we saw the
property that we were destined to buy. My wife was practically
jumping around she was so excited there was no chance of the
agent not realising that they had hit gold.
Prices were surging at that time so we didn?t mess around trying
to negotiate discounts. We wanted it, we got it and we don?t
regret it one bit. Looking back we were perhaps lucky. At the
time we hadn?t heard of the dreaded words ?land-grab? but
fortunately our property wasn?t ever going to fall into that
category.
We thought we were buying the property as a place to retire to ?
an investment. I?m writing this now from that house in my late
30?s ? what went wrong ? or should I say right?
I blame Channel Four mainly. A lot comes down to the programme
?A Place In The Sun?. Watching that makes it very hard to go to
work the next the day without dreaming of sipping wine beneath
crisp blue skies with waves lapping your feet.
Every time we visited the Costa Blanca we met people who came
across like religious converts. They had a glazed look in their
eyes as they spoke about how great the lifestyle was and how
happy they were. Come on out they proclaimed.
One day we examined the fact that we were living in a house with
rooms smaller than the average jail cell. We already had a house
in Spain near the sea, we heard good things about the health
system, the education system, the quality of life - what the
hell were we doing!
We decide it was now or never ? our oldest daughter was four and
needed to start school that September. We knew it would be so
hard once she started school and got entrenched in the system
(and we would feel guilty uprooting her).
I won?t bore you with every detail of our time here in Spain but
let me give you a flavour of what to expect.
Someone said to me that every day for at least six months I
would question what the hell I had done. Of course I laughed at
the very suggestion (not to his face of course) but that turned
out to be wise words indeed. Take it or leave it but you will
feel like this and if you don?t then you are either very lucky
or out of your mind. It?s normal ? don?t deny it.
You are in a foreign and I mean FOREIGN country, you probably
can?t speak the language, you will be lost when you breakdown
(car not your mind), you want a phone line installed, your
computer modem gets struck by lightening, yes I?m drawing on my
own experiences here, you won?t have any friends, it?s not all
fun in the sun you know.
Some people can?t take it ? they move back, right now I know of
people going back to what they call home, I also know people who
have lived here 15 years or more and couldn?t imagine living
anywhere else.
THINK CAREFULLY
It does make sense to try evaluating which category you might
fit into. It might save a lot of heartache but even if you move
here, you can always move back and you should never regret a
thing because at least you had one of life?s rich experiences
and that can?t be taken away from you.
This is an shortened version of Mark Eastwood's true story of
his amazing move to Spain from England. He runs a website with
the full article and lots of to-the-point and brutally honest
information on the Costa Blanca Coast of
Spain.
About the author:
Mark Eastwood is the publisher of http://www.CostaBlanca
Uncovered.com - the site for tourists visiting the Costa
Blanca coast of Spain as well as residents and people
considering moving to this popular area known as the 'California
of Europe'.
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