Conquering a woman's heart is for many men more or less some
kind of a minefield. Certainly, women contain every ingredient
needed for making a Molotov Cocktail, and the key is to handle
them gentle enough not to set them off.
Applying to animals and humans alike, instincts gave women the
privilege of picking while men the "honor" of doing their best
to convince them that they are the best choice possible.
Although it might not seem such an easy job, it comes with our
own nature. More than that, as the Bible says, women were
created from and for men.
Don't let yourselves fooled by all those saying that they have
the secrets needed to get any woman and become modern Don Juans.
The only secret I can think of is being yourself. The rest is,
believe it or not, pure and simple human psychology.
Just to give you an idea of how simple it can actually be, I'll
just list a few of the things needed for the "big conquest".
Before attempting anything, every man should keep in mind that
the times when males stood up on a heap of dirt and showcased
their powers are long gone. You don't have to prove her
anything! Instead, make her want to discover your qualities.
PATIENCE. This is not a hit and run thing and showing some
patience tells the woman that you could represent more than just
a waste of time. Forcing a woman into something she does not
want to do is a major mistake that will most likely cause
irreparable damage to the relationship.
HUMOR. Aside the relaxed atmosphere they create, funny guys
inspires optimism and positive attitude. After all, do you like
a woman that always complains about something?
WITS. Without some activity in your brain she could take off
before you know it. Nevertheless, a savant attitude will most
likely make her feel bad and underestimated. Keep in mind that
women fight for equality and never try to show her what an
undiscovered genius you are. After a couple of minutes of
relaxed, humorous and subtly witty chat she will figure you out
by herself.
SENSITIVENESS. Despite some opinions, women DO like sensitive
men. Nevertheless, there's a big difference between a sensitive
man and a weak man. Let her feel that she can rely on you, that
you're always on top of the situation but you can listen to her
problems and maybe even help her out sometimes.
GOOD LOOKS. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to be considered good
looking. What matters most is the way you let her understand
that you take care of yourself. A clean and tidy person will
most likely have a clean and tidy relationship.
PUNCTUALITY. Men are NEVER allowed to be late while women HAVE
to show up a little late so the man knows she is still to be
conquered. More than that, it is the woman's way of letting you
know she was preparing herself to look her best for you. You
should never come up with excuses for being late, even if they
might be true. Any excuse is just as pathetic as the next one,
so if you think you can't make it in time simply let her know
with some time in advance.
The list could go on and on but the idea behind everything is
the same: always be yourself, treat her as your equal and
understand her as a human being and not as a good catch. Women
always sense these things even if you don't say them out loud.
About the author:
Caterina Christakos is a published author and dating coach. For
your free seduction manual go to: http://www.what-women-want.com
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