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Tips to Spice Up Your Marriage
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Author: Katie Rose
Topic: Sexuality
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Tips to Spice Up Your Marriage
Every marriage
needs a little relief from the same old bedroom routine now and
then. Here is a collection of tips to up the Scoville units in
your romance.
Get Wet and Wild
The bath
or shower can be more than just a place to get clean! It can
also be a sexy rendezvous to reconnect with your spouse. Taking
the time to bathe each other and wash one another?s hair can be
a sensual delight. Steam up the bathroom with some erotic
accessories inviting to both you and your spouse. If you have
the available counter space or open shelves, place scented
candles around the room. Keep aromatic bath oils and waterproof
toys close by. Just be sure you have a private place to store
your toys if you have children or expect guests.
One
if by Land...
Keep a set of "signal" sheets (or
even just a signal pillow) that you or your spouse can put on
the bed to silently request a romantic tryst. Pick an unusual
color, a sexy material like satin or a bold pattern - or a
pillow with a sexy come-hither saying on it.
An
Appetite for Love
Prepare a dinner that is a
prelude to love wearing nothing but an apron and a smile. There
are so many foods that have been thought to be aphrodisiacs that
you will have no problem planning a menu. Some ideas are
oysters, pine nuts, peaches, grapes, walnuts -- even asparagus -
or just serve something special to the two of you. More
important than the food is that the meal stirs the senses by
evoking arousing smells, tastes and textures. Don't forget to
play mood music and put candles in every room. You don't even
have to make it to the bedroom - why not have a change of sexual
venue in the kitchen?
Go Postal!
Buy
some pretty or provocative stationery - or use your computer to
create an invitation for a romantic date or trip for you and
your spouse. Include all of the details including the time,
date, what to wear and where to meet, but keep the romantic
event itself a surprise. Address the envelope to your spouse and
mail it to him or her. In this era of instant communication with
email, text messaging and cell phones, the invitation will be a
romantic surprise.
Let's Dance
Remember
when a mix tape was sooo romantic? To get you in the mood, make
a mix CD of all of your favorite sexy songs or fun songs and
have a dance together. Get as wild or as romantic as you wish -
your dances can go as far as you like. You can add a
bump-and-grind music and do your own strip tease or some salsa
and do your own forbidden dance of love.
Reach Out
and Touch Someone
Don't forget simple pleasures.
Brushing your spouse's hair, a light sensual massage or just
cuddling can be extremely sensuous. Touching always leads to
more touching. Play touching games by seeing how lightly you can
run your hands over your spouse's body, spell out suggestive
words with your finger and see if he or she can guess what you
wrote.
Hide and Seek
Take a sexy
picture of yourself and hide it with a suggestive note in his or
her briefcase, wallet or lunch box. Just make sure not to put it
where it may be found by children or coworkers.
align="justify">Trick or Treat
align="justify">Costumes are not just for kids at Halloween.
There are so many sexy costumes out there for men and women. Try
role playing as a pilot and a stewardess - or a teacher and a
schoolgirl - or a real estate agent and a prospective home
buyer. The possibilities are endless. Fantasy foreplay can lead
you to realms of spiciness you never knew existed. Let your
imagination run wild.
Romance Zone
Keep
your bedroom off limits for everything except sleep and romance.
Do not allow it to be a center of the household where you write
bills or do work, it should be a haven for you and your spouse
and a stress-free zone where you enjoy one another and your
marriage. Use soft colors and fabrics, fresh cut flowers on your
nightstand, mirrors and your favorite art - anything to create
an atmosphere of relaxation and sensuality.
Copyright 2005 www.katieroseintimates.com
ATTENTION
WEBMASTERS and EZINE PUBLISHERS - Permission is granted to
publish this article on your site or in your Ezine but ONLY if
my bio paragraph is included and all links are hyperlinked. I
would also appreciate a note letting me know that you are using
it, although it is not mandatory, I just like to see where my
work is being used.
About the author:
Katie Rose is the owner of Katie Rose Intimates Sexy Costumes
and Lingerie A fine lingerie shop featuring fantasy clothing,
leather and lace and intimate apparel in sexy, erotic, romantic
and unique styles - with special attention for the plus size
woman.
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