When it comes to the topic of looks with women, most guys are
usually clueless and confused. They tend to think in
extremities: you either need to look like Brad Pitt to pick up
decent looking women, or you can look like a homeless and still
get laid. The truth is in-between. I'm sure you have seen
model-looking guys with hot women and thought she must have only
been with him because of his looks. On the contrary, you might
have also seen butt-ugly guys with the hottest girls, which left
you wondering. To understand the situation better, let's talk
about the details of your first interaction with a girl. As
psychologists say, people will have formed a firm opinion about
you within the first 30 seconds or 1 minute of meeting you. This
is especially true for women. How can you make a good impression
on people? With your looks and with your attitude. (body
language, eye-contact, words) And here comes the most protected
dirty little secret of seduction gurus: When a woman checks you
out, she will not look at your face. She will look at your shoes
and check whether they are polished or not. She will look at
your nails and see if they are long or dirty. She will look at
your clothes to see whether they are clean or not, how they go
together with your image/personality and what they communicate.
Having a style that is also consistent with your personality is
one of the most important things. You are a man and you will
look at a girl's breasts, check out her ass and see if she has a
baby face. But women always look at the big picture and the way
you come off from the first second of meeting you. She will
picture herself in her head with you together and think what
people would say about her if she went out with you. Women are
self-validation junkies, they are constantly looking for the
approval of other people and you will be another piece of this
puzzle as well. Girls don't want a man on their side who doesn't
know how to look or behave. Thus the first step towards
improving your success is fixing your looks. You might say that
your looks is something you can't change. This is dead wrong.
You don't need plastic surgery to improve your looks by at least
2 points on a scale from 1 to 10. All you need is to be neat,
tidy and to have some style. If you have big red acne on your
face, get proper treatment. If your hair is greasy and long,
wash it and get a stylish haircut. If you dress like a nerd, go
to the local shopping center and get some new clothes. You don't
have to spend a million bucks on clothes; style doesn't mean
dressing expensively, it means dressing fashionably. If you are
too thin, put on some muscle. If you are fat, get on a diet. Do
you catch what I'm saying? Just by taking care of yourself a
little bit, you can leave a much better impression on people and
the women you interact with. To summarize it, your looks matter
as long as you don't care about it. As soon as you get that
handled, girls won't care whether you look like Brad Pitt or
not. As long as you have the proper attitude of course. And that
is what I'll talk about in my next article. Stay tuned. And if
you can't wait or just don't want to, check out my book
About the author:
What separates you from the guys who attract the most beautiful
women? It's NOT your looks or money. Giuseppe Notte is the
author of an amazing new e-book,
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