Ever had a love at first sight encounter? Totally captured by
her beauty the first time you laid your eyes on her? Having
sleepless nights thinking about her? That first impression she
left with you was sure astonishing wasn?t it? The first
impression you give plays a very important part in the blooming
of a love relationship. It determines the ever possibility of a
development of the relationship. Would you fall in love with
someone whom you don?t have any good impression at all? The
chances are, if you have a bad impression of someone, it is very
likely that the more you see him the more you will dislike him.
It is very hard to change one?s thinking once it is set in his
mind. It will need a lot of time and regular communication
between both to break down that wall. So even if you can?t
impress that special someone the very first time, make sure you
will not displease him or her. You can still work on your
chances at a later time. How can you impress someone? Well, you
may be the kindest soul, so helpful; caring, fun loving and easy
going whom all your friends enjoy your presence. But does that
someone know? No, if there are no chances of both of you going
out together, going out on a date, there?s no way he or she will
ever get to know you more. You have got to make that someone
notice you, make your presence be known. You got to first
impress him or her! Very naturally, humans tend to make judgment
of another just by their very first acquaintance with the
person. Decisions were made almost at that very moment of your
job interview? Your physical appearance, the way you talk, all
your little behaviors you show, will decide what kind of a
person you are to them and this impression is going to be set in
their mind unless some thing or someone changes it. So what can
you do? What should you take note of? First of all, your
appearance of course. Your physical appearance is the very the
first thing that catches a person?s eyes. Put on your very best
look! But do however dress appropriately. If you are going for a
ball, you will not go in your jeans and tee and if you are going
for a barbeque, for heaven?s sake, please don?t go in your
tuxedo or suits. Other than your physical appearance, you have
to also be careful with all your little actions, the way you
speak, the way you eat, the way you look at others etc. Look for
chance to strike a conversation with that someone. If not a
personal one, a little group conversation will be good. Try to
participate in the conversation, getting his or her attention.
Look into the eyes, drop him or her a nice warm smile. Let that
someone know that his or her presence is felt, being felt by
you. A smile with the right eye contact at the right timing can
sometimes works wonder than to words. But please, keep the
conversations entertaining. If you are bad with jokes, don?t try
it! Don?t risk making yourself a clown. For guys, show your
gentlemanliness, hold the door for her, offer seat to her; offer
her a ride home etc. But remember, be natural, take things
slowly, don?t overdo it and scare her off the very first time.
For girls? Well, you always got a little more privilege. Just be
sure not to make yourself look unfriendly. Smile, look him in
the eyes and drop him a nice little sweet smile of yours. Do you
know that your smile is enough to melt a man?s heart? Well all
these little things count, your little efforts will pay off.
Nonetheless, it?s always good to leave people with a good
impression of yourself rather than a bad one, isn?t it? About
The Author: Rick Valens Staff Writer for
http://www.loveletterbox.com Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://www.ecemetery.org
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