Had you ever been in the situation where your heart suddenly
beats so fast, losing your ability to think, having the sudden
loss for words when seeing someone you admired? At that very
moment, you were like frozen in time, lost into another world, a
world so wonderful, so heavenly? Hmm? How is my description? Ha
whatever, the fact is that at that very moment, you were totally
defenseless. So defenseless that anything could have just hit
you. An arrow? An arrow of love? Get what I mean? Ok, let me
share with you an experience of mine, a memory of my college
days. Those were the days when we would always hang out in a big
group, a group of both guys and girls, partying and having fun
together. There was this fine evening that we gathered at a
friend?s place for a little party, followed by some games of
Black Jack during the later evening. We were sited in one big
circle in this nice and cozy room. Sitting beside me was this
girl, a very beautiful girl I must admit. But well, it had never
cross my mind of a relationship further than that of a friend
with her. There just wasn?t any chemistry between us. Then came
an ace for me! Before I realize anything, this girl beside me
suddenly just came in so close on me. I know she was just been
excited and curious on whether I would get my Jack. But at this
very moment, her knee was on my lap, shoulder right in front of
my chest. We were suddenly just so close; I could feel the
beautiful fragrance from her soft silky hair. My heart was
suddenly pounding so fast, gasping for breath. I was totally at
loss, for that very moment, she got me! That chemistry, that
frequency, which had never happened between us suddenly just
flowed through me so relentlessly. Just imagine, if she were to
give me a peck on my cheek out of excitement if I got a Black
Jack. Ha well, that of course did not happen and neither did I
get my jack. Get the picture now? This is a very natural human
psychological reaction. When one is in the stage experiencing
that sudden increase in the heartbeat, undergoing a sudden
feeling of excitement, he tends to get confused, unknowingly
developing that feeling of liking for that someone beside him,
especially when the person is of the opposite sex. An opposite
sex of, whom he does not have any bad impression. Not to mention
an opposite sex of whom he has a good impression of? Ha! I know
what is on your mind now. But well, there is nothing wrong, why
not? Go create that perfect atmosphere; an atmosphere that would
make one?s heart beats faster. An atmosphere that would make the
sudden chemistry of love flowing between both of you. A roller
coaster ride? A haunted house adventure? Having a good laugh
together after the rides? A little nice chatting session over
the coffee table after a game of his favorite sports, tennis?
Singing her a love song with your guitar in front of everyone?
Think about it, you plan yours. Take it slowly; build up that
chemistry of love between both of you. You are definitely on the
right track. About The Author: Rick Valens Staff Writer for
http://www.loveletterbox.com Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://www.ecemetery.org
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