What is it that makes you attracted to someone? The look? The
character? The way he or she makes you laugh? Well, that is a
few possibilities. Now let me ask you another question. What is
it that you feel that makes a couple go on a date together,
dates after dates? Think about it. Remember they have a choice
of saying no to a date. Very simple, there is something of
similar liking between the both of them, something which both
enjoy doing together, over and over again. Ask yourself this
question, would you go on a date with someone whom doesn?t enjoy
dining, watching movies, coffee at caf? etc. Not a thing at all
of what you enjoy doing? For a couples to remain together, there
has got to be something similar between both. Similar liking,
interest, characteristic etc. The more the similarities there is
between the both of you, the better the chances of a development
of a further relationship there will be. What are the
similarities between both that you can work on? First of all,
the physical appearance of course. Your physical appearance is
the very first thing that catches a person?s eyes, the eyes of
that special someone. Take note of the type of dressing style he
or she likes? How is he or she normally dressed? A trendy and
hip? Casual and sporty? Smart casual? Try to dress so, dress in
the style he or she would like. Think about it, if you were
someone who is very concern with the neatness and cleanliness of
your physical appearance, would you like someone who is always
so shabbily dressed? Naturally, a person would tend to enjoy the
company of another who generally dresses similar to that of him
or herself. Don?t you find it so within your usual group of
click? Next would be the hobbies and interest. What sports does
he or she like? Does she play the piano? What type of movies
does he or she enjoy watching? Does she love animals, dogs? Does
he love fishing? What flowers does she like? Hmm? knowing his or
her habits will be good too. Where does he or she normally hang
out? Does she hate crowded places? How many cubes of sugar she
like for her coffee? Does he hate shopping? Well in simple, find
out anything possible under the sun about him or her. Not a clue
where to start? Friends would be a good source to start with. Ok
guys, now that you know what she likes, it is time to plan for a
little nice and enjoyable date with her. It is afterall still a
guy?s job to ask the girl out, right? Notice I used the word
?enjoyable? instead of a nice and ?romantic? date? Well, a date
involves two persons. To allow the chance for a further
development of a relationship, the chance for a next date, you
have got to make her enjoy the date, enjoy the time spent with
you. Take her to places that she likes, serve her food that she
enjoys eating. ?Oh medium cooked for the lady please? Present
her with flowers that she likes. She will be so surprised and
impressed by you. ?Oh Rick, how do you know that I love Pink
Tulips? It?s so sweet of you? Plan activities that she has
always enjoyed. Watching a movie that she likes at her favorite
cinema? Bringing her to her favorite musical, ?Phantom of The
Opera?? Ha as usual, me and my ideas again. Well, I know you can
definitely plan for yourself a more perfect enjoyable date. In
simple, create a familiar environment for her, a date that she
will feel comfortable. Naturally, she will enjoy herself, enjoy
going out with you, having your company, developing a further
liking for you. About The Author: Rick Valens Staff Writer for
http://www.loveletterbox.com Love Relationship Discussion Forum
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