These days society puts an abnormal pressure on guys. From your
early teens, other guys tend to measure you with the number of
girlfriends you have or the number of girls you have laid. From
early high school, a guy who has a girlfriend is considered to
be "cooler" than a "lamer" that has no girls at all. If I had a
teenage son, I would advise him to focus on perfecting himself
instead of chasing girls. Society puts an abnormal pressure on
younger (and even older) men. If you feel like you have to
"prove yourself", your success and chances with women have
already been RUINED. Have you noticed that if you stress
yourself too much about a certain thing, you will be much more
likely to fuck it up? Most people will fail badly when they have
to prove themselves under pressure. It's the same when it comes
to getting girls. If you are pressured to get a girl because
your buddies are constantly bugging you with your virginity or
your being single, you will be guaranteed to get no girls at
all. The first step towards getting rid of this pressure put on
you by society is understanding: Your value is not measured in
the number of girls you fuck. Just keep this in mind to drop the
great burden from your shoulders and open the way towards
reaching your goal: getting women. The second step is to get a
hobby. Men with no life are very un-attractive to women. On the
other hand, a man who is very passionate about something
(whether it's a sport he is doing, playing the guitar, racing
with his car, collecting rare insects or anything else you can
think of) is very attractive to girls. Lastly, the third step to
become successful with women is putting in some work instead of
feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing will fall into your laps
from the sky unless you work for it. There is no need to stress
yourself too much, simply have the will to learn and improve
yourself. There is a lot of information available on the topic
of seduction online, and by doing a little bit of research it's
easy to find some useful tips. If you have decided to act right
now and don't want to spend months or years figuring out what
works and what doesn't work from the pool of information found
online, I suggest you check out my e-book, called "All About
Women" at www.seduction-and-dating.com. It covers each and every
topic of the seduction process, from A to the Z. And finally,
don't forget that everything sounds great in theory but you will
only get what you want if you act and put in the work necessary.
Don't fall into the trap of becoming a seduction scientist who
sits in front of his computer all day and has no life, just go
out and decide to get the kind of women you have always wanted.
Believe me, everything you need to make this reality is in you.
Just bring it out!
About the author:
What separates you from the guys who attract the most beautiful
women? It's NOT your looks or money. Giuseppe Notte is the
author of an amazing new e-book, "All About Women" that will
teach you the secrets of dating and mating with the most
beautiful women - whether you are ugly, fat, young, bald or
broke! ======> http://www.seduction-and-dating.com
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