You are on the first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your
palms are sweating, you are trying damn hard to come up with
something funny to say, only to have long silences in your
conversation. She gets up after an hour and says: "Sorry but
it's getting late. I have to go home to feed my dog." Before you
could say something, she has left already. I'm sure the above
situation has come up in your worst nightmares. The most crucial
part of your interactions and the key to success with women is
the first date. If you do it well, it will be easy to get down
and dirty quickly. Most guys do something boring on the first
date. Going to the movies together, sitting at a cafe, having an
expensive dinner at a restaurant ? the list is endless. It's
easy to use this to your advantage: by putting in a little bit
of fantasy, you will be way ahead of the crowd. Here is how:
When I go out with a woman, I take her on an "adventure date".
This word has multiple meanings as you will see. We do something
exciting and romantic in the same time. Something that brings
you as close as it's possible on a first date. Let's see an
example: A friend of mine takes his girls on an exciting outing.
They visit one of the local sightseeing locations and end up at
an abandoned ruin of a castle. By then it's usually getting dark
? don't worry though, my friend is there to hug and provide
safety for our just-a-little-bit frightened girl :) Another
example: We have a hill in my city with a castle and some
monuments on the top. There is a tunnel crossing the hill. A
tunnel, which ends in a bridge. The bridge is illuminated at
night giving a wonderful sight. Usually, I take my date on a
short walk among the monuments. As it is getting dark, we go on
a tiny little road down the hill. A road, which leads us to a
place that only a few people know: the top of the tunnel. And
below us it's the entire city giving a wonderful and romantic
sight. This is the point where I go in for the first kiss with
the girl. Don't think that you need special places or monuments
to go on adventure dates. You can even do them indoors: When the
weather doesn't allow going outside, I bring my girls to the
local shopping center. We sit to a cafe and talk a bit. Then I
stand up and invite them for a walk around. We visit a few shops
while shopping some clothes for me. Then we play bowling or go
to the local bookstore. It's funny to laugh at the various love
and sex advice books together with the girl. The above are just
examples, it's easy to come up with your own ideas. All you need
is a little bit of fantasy and to know your city a little. Check
out a local city guide paper for some examples or ask a friend
who knows. The key of adventure dates is not in the adventure
itself, but in sharing activities with the girl. If you sit to a
cafe and stay there for 4 hours, it will be nothing more than a
conventional date. But if you sit to a cafe, then visit other
places as well while being together, she will lose her sense of
time and feel like you've known each other for a while. In that
state, it's much easier to go in for the first kiss and get
further. Finally, if you are interested in improving your
success with women and learning more tips and tricks of
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